We would go all out. My cousin would come, we’d catch up with friends, and one year we even had a cornhole tournament, that got pretty competitive. The food was a big deal, but so was having everyone together.

When my parents moved up here, their house wasn’t big enough to host everyone, so Thanksgiving moved to our house. Brett took on a huge part of the cooking because he’s a master chef, and I am very happy to benefit from that talent! My brother and his wife come over, and last year we had extended family join us, too.

I love a full house. But feeding that full house can definitely be stressful, especially for the person doing most of the cooking. (Brett, not me.)

Over the past few years, we’ve learned a few hosting party tricks and how much a little planning can help. These are the shortcuts worth making room for so you can enjoy the people gathered around your table. Here are our 8 Thanksgiving tips for less stress so you can enjoy more connection this holiday season.

1. Make What You Can Ahead of Time

A Thanksgiving menu gets a lot more manageable when every dish doesn’t have to start and finish on Thursday. Look over your recipes ahead of time and figure out what you can prepare early. That might mean making a dish completely ready to bake, prepping ingredients, or simply measuring everything so it’s ready when you need it.

Write those steps into your plan, too. “Chop ingredients Wednesday” is much more helpful than a mental note to get ahead somehow. Some of our family favorites that we make ahead of time are the sweet potato casserole and cranberry sauce. Brett has even cooked the turkey ahead of time and reheated it the day of. Start with the family favorites you know you’re making, then look for ways to spread out the work.

2. Give Everyone Something to Graze On

Our Thanksgiving grazing board is a tradition I have no plans to give up.

We fill it with meats, specialty cheeses, olives, gherkins, fruit, nuts, seeds, and assorted crackers—the works! It’s fun to put together, looks beautiful, and gives everyone something to snack on while dinner is cooking.

We usually eat around 5 or 6, so having something available beforehand keeps everyone from becoming starving beasts while they wait. The idea is a little grazing to bridge the gap until dinner.

And if making a big board sounds like another job, a few cheeses, crackers, and fruit will still give guests something to enjoy when they arrive.

3. Use Nice Disposable Dishes

I am fully in favor of a pretty table that doesn’t leave you with a mountain of dishes. For larger gatherings, nice disposable plates and napkins can still feel festive, especially alongside a tablecloth or a simple centerpieces. Look for sturdy plates that can handle an actual Thanksgiving dinner.

You can also use this shortcut selectively. Keep the dishes you love for dinner and use disposable plates for appetizers or dessert. Every little bit of cleanup you save yourself counts when you’re hosting a crowd.

4. Give Guests Something Specific to Bring

When someone asks, “What can I bring?” have an answer ready. A specific request makes it easier for them and takes something definite off your list. Ask for an appetizer, a favorite side, dessert, or drinks—whatever would help most.

Our go to, is dessert. We’re not huge bakers so anything someone can add to the festivities is welcome. And you can end up with quite the assortment. It’s also a lovely way to make room for someone else’s family specialty.

5. Get the Table and Serving Dishes Ready Early

Pull out your platters, bowls, and serving utensils before the kitchen gets busy. Assign each dish a place and use a little sticky note if it helps: mashed potatoes here, vegetables there, rolls in this basket. You’ll spot anything you’re missing while there’s still time to find it. If you can set the table the day before, even better.

This also makes it easier for someone to help. They can see where things belong without asking the chef to stop and direct every move.

6. Let Guests Help Themselves to Drinks

Set up a drink area with cups, napkins, an opener, and the drinks you’re serving. Include water and something the kids can easily help themselves to.

If you have the space, put it outside the main cooking area. Guests can refill without gathering right in front of the oven. It’s a small setup task that saves you from answering “Where are the cups?” while trying to get dinner ready.

7. Make a Simple Cooking Timeline

Work backward from the time you want to eat and write down when each dish needs to go into the oven or onto the stove. Pay particular attention to anything competing for oven space. Include reheating, resting time where your recipe calls for it, and those final steps that are easy to forget.

Keep the timeline somewhere visible so anyone helping can follow along. You don’t need an elaborate spreadsheet. A piece of paper that keeps everything out of your head is enough.

8. Have Take-Home Containers Ready

Put take-home containers and something to label them with in one place before guests arrive. When it’s time to share leftovers, you won’t be hunting through a cabinet for a lid that almost fits. Guests can take home a little of their favorite dishes, and you can get the kitchen settled sooner.

After all that cooking, those family specialties deserve an encore.

8 Thanksgiving Tips for Less Stress and More Connection

Thanksgiving means a lot to me because of the memories we’ve made around it. I want to enjoy the full house, hear the conversations, and have Brett get a chance to enjoy the day, too.

A few things done early, some help from family, and fewer dishes waiting afterward can make that easier. I hope these 8 Thanksgiving tips help you enjoy more connection and less stress this coming holiday.

What’s one Thanksgiving tradition—or hosting shortcut—you would never give up?

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October, you were a lot. In the best way, of course. I’ve got a little beauty, a little fashion, a good book, and some Halloween fun to cover this month. Let’s get into this Fab Five Friday!

1. Colorescience Face Shield Flex SPF 50

Okay, this SPF is so good. The Colorescience Face Shield Flex SPF 50 goes on to your skin white and the tint adjusts to your skin tone as you blend it in. It gives such a flattering glow and I love how well it blends with my skin. Watching the color change is pretty satisfying, too. There is a Black Friday event going on currently, too, so you can snag this product at 25% off right now!

2. Dr. Scholl’s Time Off Sneakers

As I was packing for my recent Mediterranean Cruise, I realized that I was planning to pack about 6 or 7 pairs of shoes to match all my outfits. Which seemed bonkers to me. So I decided to invest in a good pair of walking shoes in a neutral color that will go with everything. And these Dr. Scholl’s Time Off sneakers did NOT disappoint. So worth the cost. I didn’t have time to break them in before the trip, which could have been a terrible mistake, but amazingly, I wore them every single day and didn’t get one blister!

Finding shoes that look cute with anything—including dresses—and are actually comfortable can feel like asking a lot, but these checked both boxes. If you’re travelling and putting together your wardrobe, these are worth every penny.

3. A Lightweight Cropped Bomber Jacket for Traveling

I wanted something lightweight for our trip that still looked cute (not like a typical rain jacket), and this cropped jacket from Amazon ended up being such a good find. It was affordable, super comfortable, and served as my rain layer on the trip. I liked that it had a trendier look while still being practical and lightweight for the weather we encountered. Definitely a happy little Amazon discovery.

4. Circe by Madeline Miller

You know when a book has been sitting on your to-read list, and then it becomes available at exactly the right time? That was Circe for me. I loved getting to hear the story of the Odyssey from Circe’s perspective. There’s something so interesting about revisiting a familiar story through the eyes of someone whose side you haven’t really heard. Especially right after seeing the movie in the theater. If you enjoy mythology—or the idea of seeing a familiar character in a completely different light—add this one to your list.

5. Halloween With Our Crew

And of course, October’s Fab Five wouldn’t be complete without a little Halloween. Everyone’s costumes came out amazing and it was super fun having friends over to celebrate.

If you’re already collecting inspiration for next year, I updated our family Halloween costume ideas with our costumes from last year. Never too early to start planning!

And that’s October’s Fab Five Friday! A little glow, happy feet, a good book, and memories worth keeping.

What was your favorite find this month? And what have you read lately that I need to add to my list?

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Those six words have the potential to kick off the best group chat ever. At least until someone asks the inevitable question:

“Okay, but where should we go?”

And suddenly, the group chat is 87 messages deep.

Someone suggests a spa. Someone else wants a city. One person wants to hike. Another wants to sit by a pool with a cocktail. There are flights to compare, budgets to consider, schedules that somehow never line up, and approximately 47 destinations that sound amazing until you actually start looking at the logistics.

Getting a group of women together in one place is an accomplishment all on its own. So when you finally make it happen, you want the destination to be worth it.

If you’re looking for girls’ trip destinations that offer great food, fun experiences, a little adventure, and plenty of time to catch up with your favorite people, I’ve got a few ideas.

Over the years, I’ve taken girls’ trips to some pretty amazing places, and five destinations in particular stand out. From desert adventures and buzzing nightlife to Southern charm and getting completely lost in nature. Each one offers a very different kind of girls’ getaway.

So if your group chat has officially reached the “WHERE ARE WE GOING?!” stage, here’s a little help narrowing it down.

1. Scottsdale: For the Girls Who Want a Little Bit of Everything

If your ideal girls’ trip involves being active in the morning, relaxing somewhere beautiful in the afternoon, and getting dressed up for an amazing dinner at night, Scottsdale is hard to beat.

This is the destination for the group that doesn’t want to choose between adventure and a little luxury. You can spend the morning exploring the desert and seeing those gorgeous saguaro cacti, then head out for a trendy brunch, before heading out for cocktails and a really good meal.

And honestly, that combination was one of my favorite things about our trip. We went from rugged desert scenery and outdoor adventure to a beautiful, elevated dinner all in the same day. It felt like two completely different vacations packed into one weekend.

Scottsdale is especially great if your group has a mix of personalities because there’s plenty to do without feeling like you have to spend the entire weekend doing the same thing.

Plan your trip: Scottsdale’s Ultimate Foodie and Adventure Girls Getaway

2. Austin: For the Girls Who Are Ready to Have Some Fun

There’s so much energy in Austin. Between the food, live music, trendy restaurants, shopping and nightlife, it’s the kind of city that makes you want to keep going even when your feet are telling you it’s time to go back to the hotel.

Our trip was all about diving into the food scene and soaking up that fun, slightly chaotic Austin energy. There’s something about being surrounded by live music and people who are clearly there to have a good time that makes it very easy to lose track of time.

And the best part? You don’t have to spend the entire weekend running around. We even managed to fit in a spa day, giving us some much-needed time to slow down and connect before heading back out for dinner and drinks.

Our trip was the perfect mix of amazing food, fun experiences, a little relaxation, and just enough exploring to get a feel for the city. If your group wants a girls’ weekend with enough variety that everyone can find something they love, Austin is your place.

Plan your trip: Ultimate Girls Weekend Getaway in Austin

3. New Orleans: For the Girls Who Want Food, History and a Little Jazz

New Orleans has a reputation for being a party destination, but there is so much more to the city than Bourbon Street and neon drinks.

If your idea of a girls’ weekend is getting dressed up for dinner, eating ridiculously good food, wandering historic streets, sipping cocktails in beautiful courtyards, and listening to live jazz, New Orleans can be surprisingly sophisticated.

But there’s also a slightly spooky side to the city that makes it even more interesting. Between the centuries-old buildings, mysterious stories, haunted history, and legendary ghost tales, there’s no shortage of fascinating (and slightly creepy!) things to discover. It’s the kind of place where even a simple walk through the French Quarter can leave you wondering what stories those old buildings could tell.

We got to experience the French Quarter in a way that felt more elegant and immersed in the history and culture of the city. Between the food, architecture, music, and those beautiful old houses, there was always something interesting around the corner.

And, of course, there was the food. Because apparently I can’t write about a girls’ trip without making sure you know where I ate.

If your group loves a destination with personality, incredible food, a little mystery, and plenty of history mixed in with the fun, New Orleans is a great choice.

Plan your trip: Classy Girls Weekend in New Orleans

4. Charleston: For the Girls Who Want to Slow Things Down

Charleston might be my pick for the girls’ trip where the goal is simply to enjoy being together.

It’s beautiful, walkable, charming, and full of the kind of restaurants and boutiques that make you want to wander around with absolutely nowhere you need to be for the next few hours.

This was the perfect setting for our Valentine’s weekend because everything felt romantic and pretty without being overly planned. We spent time walking the cobblestone streets, admiring the colorful historic homes, shopping, eating really well, and just enjoying the city from the streets and rooftop bars.

And sometimes that is exactly what you want from a girls’ trip.

You don’t necessarily need an itinerary packed from sunrise to midnight. Sometimes the best part is sitting across from your friends over a long brunch, wandering into a cute shop because something caught your eye, and realizing you’ve been talking for two hours.

Charleston is perfect for that kind of trip.

Plan your trip: The Perfect Charleston Girls Trip

5. Yosemite: For the Girls Who Want to Get Away From Everything

And then there’s Yosemite.

This is for the girls who would happily trade heels for hiking boots and a crowded city for mountain views.

Yosemite is a completely different kind of girls’ trip. There’s less shopping and nightlife and a whole lot more hiking, fresh air, waterfalls, massive granite cliffs, and time spent outside. It’s also a pretty great excuse to put your phone down for a while and actually be present with the people you came with.

The standout moment for me was simply standing together and taking in the sheer scale of the park. There are places in Yosemite that make you stop talking for a minute because the scenery is just that incredible.

And experiencing that kind of beauty with your best friends is something you remember long after the weekend is over.

If your group is craving an escape instead of another city weekend, Yosemite is the one.

Plan your trip: 5 Unforgettable Things to Do in Yosemite National Park

So… Which Girls’ Trip Is Right for You?

Now comes the hard part.

Because even when you’ve narrowed it down to five really good options, getting everyone to agree on one can feel like the real adventure.

Before someone books a nonrefundable flight because “it was such a good deal,” there are a few things your group should figure out first.

What does everyone actually want to spend? This is probably the least fun conversation, but also one of the most important. A girls’ trip is a lot more fun when everyone feels comfortable with the budget instead of quietly panicking every time someone suggests another expensive dinner.

How many nights do you have? A quick two-night getaway and a four-day long weekend can feel like completely different trips, especially when you factor in travel time.

How much travel is everyone willing to do? Are you looking for a quick direct flight and easy transportation once you arrive, or is everyone perfectly happy renting a car and making the journey part of the adventure?

And, most importantly, what do you actually want out of the weekend?

Do you want to eat your way through a city? Hike until your legs hurt? Sit by a pool with a cocktail? Shop, brunch, and wander? Stay out way too late listening to live music? Or maybe you just want uninterrupted time with your best friends somewhere beautiful.

Once you figure that out, choosing between all the amazing girls’ trip ideas becomes a whole lot easier. Whether you’re looking for a fun city escape, an adventurous weekend, or a relaxing getaway with your best friends, there’s a destination that fits your group.

So send this to the group chat, put the five destinations up for a vote, and see which one gets everyone the most excited.

Because the truth is, the destination is only part of what makes a girls’ trip great. The best part is getting a few of your favorite women in the same place, laughing until your stomach hurts, staying up way too late talking about everything and nothing (maybe even watching Dirty Dancing), and making the kind of memories that inevitably get brought up every time you’re together.

Now… who’s ready to start planning?

(I am!)

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How to Prioritize Self-Care for Moms During Back to School Season

Let’s be brutally honest for a second: the advice to “just take a spa day” when you’re drowning in notifications is laughable. Who has four hours to get wrapped like a burrito in seaweed when the soccer tournament schedule for this weekend was just released? Exactly. No one. But neglecting your own well-being isn’t a badge of honor, it’s a fast track to burnout.

If we want to survive this new routine without losing our minds, we have to prioritize self-care, and change the way we look at it. So let’s dive in.

Embrace the Power of Small Moments

One of the biggest misconceptions about self-care is that it has to be elaborate. But even small moments count. The truth is, self-care for busy moms often happens in the little pockets of time throughout the day. Because if you wait for a free, uninterrupted two-hour block to magically appear on your calendar, you will be waiting until graduation.

Instead, take a few deep breaths while waiting in the school pickup line. Wake up a little early and take the time to enjoy your coffee before it goes cold for once. Read a chapter of a book before bed instead of scrolling social media. These small moments may seem insignificant, but they add up and can have a powerful impact on your mental well-being.

Get Organized—Then Give Yourself Grace

Back-to-school season comes with a lot of moving pieces. Between forms, practices, appointments, and homework, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Creating simple systems can help reduce stress. Consider setting up a family command center, prepping lunches and outfits the night before, and keeping a shared calendar for activities and commitments.

But remember the important part: organization is meant to support you, not stress you out further. Because the truth is, there will be forgotten water bottles, you will sign a permission slip and then forget it on the kitchen counter, and someone will tell you about the project due tomorrow at 9:00 p.m. despite having three weeks to complete it.

When that happens, give yourself some grace. A messy morning does not make you a bad mom; it makes you a human being raising other developing human beings. Laugh at the chaos and move on.

Stop Treating Sleep Like an Option

When life gets busy, moms are often the first people to move themselves to the bottom of the priority list. Unfortunately, that’s usually when we need self-care the most. Taking care of your physical health is a key part of self-care.

Prioritize a real seven-to-eight-hour sleep schedule and let the laundry sit on the couch for another night. It’s not going anywhere, I promise.

Try to fit in some physical activity each day, even if it’s just a short walk around the neighborhood. It doesn’t need to be a grueling sweat session, even an at home stretching routine is enough to reset your nervous system.

Schedule “Me Time” Like Any Other Appointment

If it’s not on the calendar, there’s a good chance it won’t happen. Many moms manage the schedule for every doctor’s appointment, soccer practice, PTO meeting, and dance recital while leaving no space for themselves. Try treating self-care the same way you would any important commitment.

Whatever fills your cup, make it a priority and protect that time when possible. If you can’t make it to a facial, invest in a skincare routine that makes you feel good. If you can’t get your nails done professionally, schedule time to pamper yourself at home.

Take advantage of the opportunities (ie: Mother’s Day gift) to get that hour and a half long massage. If you can make it work, it’ll work wonders for your mental, emotional, and physical well-being.

Build Your Village and Actually Use It

There is something incredibly comforting about talking to another mom who understands exactly what you’re experiencing. Build your village of moms and accept the help when you need it. Use your village to coordinate carpools, start group chats, and set up emergency contact lists.

Accepting help from your village doesn’t mean you’re incapable. It means you’re human. In fact, allowing others to support you can strengthen your relationships and reduce unnecessary stress.

Plus, the best self-care isn’t always a bubble bath—it can also be laughing with another mom about the fact that everyone forgot picture day until the night before.

How to Prioritize Self-Care for Moms During Back to School Season

Here’s the truth many moms need to hear: taking care of yourself is not selfish.

When you prioritize your physical, mental, and emotional well-being, you’re better equipped to handle the demands of parenting. You have more patience, more energy, and more resilience when challenges arise.

Perhaps even more importantly, you’re modeling healthy habits for your children. They learn that caring for themselves matters because they see you doing it too.

This back-to-school season, don’t wait until you’re completely exhausted to give yourself permission to recharge. Start small. Choose one habit, one moment, or one boundary that supports your well-being.

Because while school supplies, schedules, and packed lunches are important, so are you.

And trust me—the family will survive if you drink your coffee while it’s still hot.

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Happy Friday! I cannot believe we have one more week of summer left before school starts. The calendar sure is filling up already and we are getting as organized as we can before all the open houses and meet the teacher nights next week. Anyone else’s shared calendar looking like a complete rainbow at this point?! Well, it’s my favorite day of the week today and I am so excited to be sharing a Fab Five Friday today. Now that I have moved my Fab Five Fridays to the end of the month, I’ve got lots to share. So let’s dive into it!

1. The Midnight Library

First on the list is The Midnight Library by Matt Haig. I finished this book in two days, I could not put it down. Definitely one of my favorites so far this year. I highly recommend and loved the message and all of the possibilities. Pick this one up for your next read or book club pick. You will not be disappointed.

2. Cherry Pitter

Ok, please don’t tell me that I am the last person on Earth to discover a Cherry Pitter. Cherries have been in season and we’ve been picking up a bag every week. Rylee and I both love them; they make for the sweetest snack and most satisfying dessert. We were chatting with a neighbor about them and complaining about the pits, when she mentioned a “cherry pitter”. I immediately took to Amazon to get one of my own, and it’s a game changer. Being able to take a big bite of a full cherry is divine. You must add to your kitchen repertoire stat.

3. Oath Nutrition Clear Protein

We all know the deal about protein these days. When I started hearing about “Clear Protein” I was really curious. I’m not always in the mood for a chocolate shake, so having another way to get protein in sounded really intriguing. I tried a sample pack of Oath’s Clear Protein – Frosty Lemonade flavor, and I was floored with how delicious it was. There are so many brands and options out there, but as I compared pricing and serving sizes (and I loved the taste of this brand) and I highly recommend this one from Amazon. It’s a great option for dessert, too… it’s that good!

4. Beauty by Earth Self Tanning Lotion

Ok, you can’t always trust the influencing on social media, but I got influenced hard on this product and decided to take a chance on it. This lotion is amazing. I will 10,000 times recommend. It goes on white, just like typical lotion, but gives you the perfect golden tan that builds over time—without the streakiness of those foam tanners or the residual product rubbing off on your sheets. I ordered on Amazon first, just in case I had to return it and so that I didn’t have to sign up on another random site, but when I realized it was legit, I immediately ran to the Beauty by Earth site for their BOGO deal. They run them often, so check it out. Just because summer is ending doesn’t mean we still dont need to get our tan on!

5. OFFLINE by Aerie

OFFLINE by Aerie has become one of my go-tos for super light, comfortable and affordable athleisure attire. I love the waist of these shorts, they are so comfortable—wether you are sitting at your desk or hitting the gym. And they are so light and breathable, perfect for summer walks. They run small, so I size up to a medium in bottoms, but stay with small for tops. I love a good matching set and to be able to get one in this price point is such a great deal.

Thank you so much for stoping by this Fab Five Friday! I hope you have an amazing weekend.

Closing Questions:

1. What was your favorite find or memory from July? I’d love to hear what’s been bringing you joy this month!
2. What are you most looking forward to as the back-to-school season begins? Any traditions, tips, or exciting milestones you’re celebrating?
3. Have you discovered any products, books, recipes, or little life hacks lately that I absolutely need to know about? Drop them in the comments—I love finding new favorites!

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The back-to-school season always seems to sneak up on us. One minute, you’re soaking up summer pool days, and the next—you’re staring down supply lists, sports sign-ups, and color-coded school calendars.

If you’re a mom with kids in different schools (hello, staggered start times and multiple drop-offs), the chaos can feel next-level. But with a little planning and a few mom-tested organization hacks, you can turn the madness into manageable routines.

Let’s dive in into this back to school organization made easy post featuring hacks for busy moms.

Why Getting Organized Matters

A little prep now saves a whole lot of stress later. Having an organized home gives you smoother mornings, calmer kids and more time for you. Planning ahead ensures your routine stays on track and gives you a roadmap for keeping up with your goals (and keeping your cool!) throughout the week.

Getting your system in place this summer before the craziness of school and activity schedules reduces anxiety and chaos so you don’t have to worry about the last minute scrambling for lost shoes or forgotten homework on those early mornings.

Back-to-School Organization Hacks Every Mom Can Use

Here are ten actionable hacks you can incorporate into your household or schedule to ease into this busy season, reduce chaos, and make a little more room for yourself.

1. Create a Central Command Center

Set up a space near your front door or garage entryway that can serve as a central command center. Not only can this help with keeping your kids backpacks, lunch boxes and jackets organized, but it can serve as a home base for schedules and reminders that the entire family can follow.

A big wall calendar can be beautiful and also help manage schedules. There are some really cool digital wall calenders as well, making this super techy and fun. Add hooks for backpacks and jackets, and bins or cubbies for shoes and sports gear.

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2. Streamline the Paper Trail

Create a simple, dedicated spot within your command center for school paperwork. Use a wall mounted file organizer, labeled bins, or color-coded folders to immediately sort incoming papers. Ideas include: Action Needed, To Sign, and Keep/Reference. This prevents the dreaded “countertop pile” and ensures permission slips don’t vanish.

Label folders per child to reference classroom information easily, or organize mail, like bills that need to be addressed, coupons and city newsletters. A bulletin board also offers a space to hang your child’s artwork, honor roll certificates and reminders like birthday invitations.

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3. Keep Extra Supplies at Home

Skip the late-night Target run. Stock a rolling caddy or a clear storage bin with basic school essentials: pencils, markers, glue sticks, and scissors. Your future self will thank you when that inevitable “surprise” science fair project pops up on a Tuesday night.

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4. Master Meal Prep

First, a pro-tip: if your school offers a lunch program and your kids like it, make your life easier and utilize it!

If you are making lunches every day, meal prepping is your best friend. While it may sound daunting, prepping components ahead of time is a guaranteed game-changer for smoother mornings. If dedicated “Sunday Prep” feels like a chore, make lunches the night before while you are already cleaning up dinner, so you aren’t scrambling in the morning. Here are some mom-approved tips for making meal prep easier:

Easy Healthy Snacks: Keep pre-portioned, healthy snack options ready in the fridge: chopped strawberries, peeled ‘Cuties’, or apple slices (with a spritz of lemon to prevent browning). These Packit ice pack snack bags keep them fresh in the kids’ backpacks for school. Try Chomps grass-fed beef sticks for a non-perishable protein packed snack. Pre-packaged pretzels and veggie sticks are great options as well.

Breakfast Meal Prep Made Easy: Breakfast sandwiches can also be prepped ahead of time and heated up super quick in the microwave in the mornings.

Homemade Lunchables: One of my favorite lunches to prep for the kids are homemade lunchables. Using these storage containers and a small cookie cutter, you can cut your own cold cuts and cheese and easily prep 4-5 lunches at one time.

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5. Sync Schedules Strategically

When you are managing multiple schools, build your daily plan around the earliest pickup time. Then, maximize that “waiting time” between different dismissals. Instead of stressing in the car line, use that 20 minutes for audiobooks, podcasts, or even a mini moment of self-care.

6. Communicate, Communicate, Communicate

Between multiple teachers, front offices, and coaches, the communication tools can get overwhelming. If you’re wondering if your missing something, don’t be afraid to ask. Utilize technology to save your sanity: set up group texts with parents from the same school, stay active on classroom apps and organize them in your phone for easy access. And, most importantly, maintain a shared family Google Calendar. Because if it’s not on the shared calendar, it doesn’t exist!

7. Stick to Routines

Morning and evening routines provide predictability (and fewer meltdowns). Establish clear, consistent blocks of time for homework, reading, chores, and downtime. Use your central command center to list these routines visually so everyone can reference them and be accountable.

8. Don’t Forget Yourself

Including your own routine. Don’t forget to schedule in the things that you need to be a happy, healthy parent! You’re the glue holding it all together. Schedule that workout, coffee with a friend, or quiet solo Target run.

9. Write It All Down

Trying to run mental checklists all day is a guaranteed source of stress. Externalize your brain however is best for you. Whether you use a paper planner, a digital app, or a wall of sticky notes, getting tasks out of your head is key.

10. Stay Flexible

Because let’s be real—things won’t always go as planned. Systems can, and will, evolve with your family’s needs. A child will get sick, a practice will be rained out, or you’ll forget a theme day. Give yourself grace. The system is there to serve you, not the other way around.

Back to School Organization Made Easy: Hacks for Busy Moms

The secret to surviving (and even thriving) during back-to-school season isn’t perfection—it’s preparation and perspective.

Experiment with these organization hacks, keep what works, and toss what doesn’t. Remember: calm isn’t about having a picture-perfect system—it’s about creating routines that serve your family.

Here’s to fewer frantic mornings, more peaceful afternoons, and a school year that feels (mostly) under control.

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April was such an eventful month filled with family gatherings for the holidays, dance competitions, soccer and football, a bachelorette party to Gatlinburg and all the weekly todos in between. I have been feeling like April and May are the two busiest months of the year, with something every weekend for the kids or even for Brett and I. It’s making our summer vacation at the end of May something I’m looking forward to—doing absolutely nothing but laying by the beach. In this episode of Fab Five Friday, I am so excited to share some of my favorites from this past month! Check it out!

1. Solace Watch Bands

Recently, I have been blasted by emails and social media about forever chemicals, or PFAS and was shocked. It’s a bit scary when you start to look into it, and quite honestly extremely intimidating to go on the quest to de-PFA everything you come in contact with in your home.

But, one step in the right direction for us, was these Solace watch bands. After I read that these harmful PFAS are present at the highest level in our watch bands, and that they could be absorbed into the skin, especially when sweating, I immediately made the purchase. Not only for me, but for my daughter as well. It was the best purchase! Not only are the bands beautiful and really well made, but they have a unique magnetic clasp that allows the bands to fit even the tiniest of wrists, which is so hard for both of us. They had a great sale at the time we purchased and we got two additional bands for free. I’ve worn it for weeks now, and at the gym, and they are very comfortable. Definitely recommend!

2. Protein Ice Cream

Protein, protein, protein! Make sure to get your protein! Does protein ice cream count? The answer is yes. I came across this brand of protein ice cream at Aldi, surprisingly. I didn’t realize it was sold at major retailers like Target. When I tell you that this ice cream is dangerously delicious, I meant it. Usually these kinds of ice creams fall short on texture or flavor, or both. But this ice cream is legit! It’s so good for when you need that sweet treat. I have to portion it out because I think it would be too easy to eat the entire pint!

3. Looking for Jane by Heather Marshall

This was the latest book club pick and I really enjoyed it. (Not because it has my name in it.) Looking for Jane is a historical fiction novel featuring three women across different generations and their ties to an underground abortion network in Toronto. It’s based on the real-life Jane Collective—a group of women who provided safe abortions when it was illegal at the time. The story is inspiring, featuring strong women fighting for reproductive rights. It explores themes of motherhood and having a choice, versus facing the devastating consequences of the lack of options.

4. Pureology Leave-in Spray

This Pureology all-purpose spray does literally everything! I recently added this back into my beauty supply because I was using other products and nothing really compared. Color protection, frizz control and heat protection all wrapped into one spray. It’s great!

5. The Ladder App Updates

I had to add my favorite training app, the Ladder App to the Fab Five Friday, again. Not only do I continue to love the diverse workouts that come out every week, but I feel amazing and so strong. In addition to the great coaches on the app, I have to highlight a few new features they’ve been adding. The Ladder app now includes a nutrition log, water tracking and step tracking. All in one place! I so appreciate the addition of these features because I was tracking my water, steps and macros in three different apps until now. It’s awesome to have everything all neatly laid out in an app I visit every day. And it makes the investment even more worth it.

And the food logging feature is also so easy to use. You can add items by voice, text, picture, or by scanning the barcode. It’s pretty accurate, too. It depends on the level of effort you put in, but for someone on the go who wants to better understand protein intake it’s been really helpful.

And that is it for this month’s Fab Five Friday! Thank you for stopping by! And check out last month’s Fab Five Friday if you missed it!

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We knew we weren’t ready to hand over a fully connected smartphone yet, but simply saying “wait” without a plan was making us the villains in her story. I needed a way to show her that our rules weren’t about control, but about preparation. That’s when the idea of a device contract really clicked. We needed something tangible and fair. And something that provided a clear roadmap so she didn’t have to wonder when the “no” would finally turn into a “yes.”

Why a Phone Contract for Kids Works Better Than Rules

When we stopped viewing these expectations as a set of strict rules, we shifted to viewing them as a collaborative agreement. A phone contract for kids serves a much higher purpose than just keeping them off TikTok at 2:00 AM. It creates buy-in. When we sat down with our daughter, it wasn’t a lecture; it was a meeting where she was a stakeholder. We handed her the draft and let her read it, digest it, and even suggest her own revisions. We wanted her to see that this agreement was built on a foundation of trust, respect, and balance rather than just a list of things she couldn’t do.

By documenting our concerns—like the addictive nature of certain apps or the importance of sleep—she began to understand that our hesitation wasn’t about her character, but about the technology itself. The most powerful part of this process was including a path to a phone. We committed to a specific date for her first smartphone, which immediately took the daily pressure off all of us. She stopped asking when it would happen because she had it in writing. And we stopped feeling like we were constantly moving the goalposts.

What We Include in Our Family Device Contract

Our current contract is divided into sections that grow as she does. Starting with her current tech—which includes an Apple Watch and an iPad for school. One of the first things we did to show good faith was to remove the existing downtime and app restrictions we had previously set. We told her that this was a privilege reflecting our belief that she was ready for more responsibility. It felt like a bit of a leap for us, but it was essential to show her that we were serious about trusting her to manage her own time.

However, we remained very firm on screen time rules tweens often struggle with, specifically regarding short-form video content. Our agreement explicitly states that platforms like YouTube Shorts, TikTok, and Instagram Reels are not permitted on any device. We explained to her that research shows these formats are designed to be addictive and can negatively affect the focus and well-being of developing brains.

Another non-negotiable in our house is the kitchen charging rule. Every single night, all devices must be placed on the kitchen charging station by an agreed-upon bedtime. We are huge believers that sleep matters more than any screen. Along with this, we’ve established that devices aren’t welcome during family meals or conversations unless we specifically permit them. The goal is to ensure that screen time never takes priority over homework, chores, or family connection.

Perhaps the most unique part of our contract is the work requirement. To get a phone on her 14th birthday, she must hold a summer job. We want her to learn the value of earning, responsibility, and independence, which are all qualities that go hand-in-hand with owning a smartphone. If she can handle this responsibility, we feel much more confident that she can handle the responsibility of a data plan.

The agreement also outlines exactly what happens if trust is broken. We’ve agreed that the first step is always a family conversation, not an immediate punishment. And that repeated violations can lead to restrictions put in place or the temporary loss of the device.

Tips for the Conversation

If you’re ready to introduce a contract, my biggest piece of advice is to make it a collaboration, not a confrontation. Don’t spring it on them during a tense moment. Instead give them a heads up and schedule a “family meeting. Start by acknowledging the things they are doing well and explain your “why” behind the rules.

When kids understand that a rule exists to protect their sleep or their mental health—rather than just to “be mean”—they are much more likely to respect it. Most importantly, commit to reviewing the agreement regularly. We’ve set a date to revisit ours every year on our daughter’s birthday. As she grows and proves she can handle her current level of freedom, the trust and her independence will grow right along with her.

Building a Digital Future Together

I realized through all this, that you don’t have to be a perfect parent to navigate the digital world. But you do have to be a proactive one. Transitioning from a state of constant conflict to a state of clear expectations has changed the entire energy of our home.

Communication is the bridge that turns a screen from a source of stress into a tool for connection. If you’ve been feeling that strain in your relationship, I highly encourage you to sit down and put a plan on paper. It’s not about controlling their every move; it’s about giving them the guardrails they need to eventually drive on their own. Start the conversation today and watch how much more smoothly the phone journey becomes when everyone is reading from the same script.

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If you’re dreaming of a girls’ trip that blends Southern hospitality with seriously good food, rooftop cocktails and rich history, this guide is for you. Whether you’re celebrating a birthday, planning a Galentine’s Day getaway, or simply need a long weekend with your people, Charleston in February is an underrated gem you need to know about.

Why February in Charleston is Actually Perfect

Most people don’t think of February as prime travel season. But Charleston in winter is a well-kept secret, and honestly, I think we experienced it at its absolute best.

Think light jacket or sweater during the day. Comfortable enough to stroll King Street without sweating and cool enough to enjoy an afternoon cocktail at a rooftop bar. At night a jacket or coat is comfortable and flat boots dress you up while keeping you comfortable for walking.

February also means you get to lean into the Galentine’s theme in the most fun and girly way.

Where to Stay in Charleston for a Girls’ Trip

For a group trip, renting a house is the way to go. We stayed in an adorable pink house within walking distance of some of our favorite spots. It was so nice having a common space to decompress, pregame, and play games together on the last night—which was one of the highlights of the whole trip.

Our Recommendation: Rent a House

Look for rentals in the Cannonborough-Elliotborough or Harleston Village neighborhoods. For a group of 6–10, splitting a house will likely come out cheaper than hotel rooms, too, and adds so much more to the experience. Our house was on Line Street and the location was great. Even a 20 minute walk to lunch one day felt super safe and doable in the gorgeous weather.

Hotel Alternatives:

If a house isn’t your vibe, Charleston has no shortage of stunning hotels to choose from. When looking for a place to stay, location matters so much, since the city is very pedestrian-friendly. Here are a few options depending on your budget and preferred experience, from high-end luxury to classic Southern hospitality.

The Splurge: Hotel Bennett or The Dewberry

On the higher end of the budget are Hotel Bennett and The Dewberry, ranging from $500-$900+ a night. You can’t beat the location of either of these, both overlooking Marion Square, right off King Street (The Bennett) and Meeting Street (The Dewberry). Both offer award-winning dining, historic architecture and rooftop bars.

The More Budget-Friendly: The Francis Marion Hotel

Not far away from those luxury options, is the Francis Marion Hotel which offers a more accessible price point without sacrificing the “prime” location. (Nightly rates range from $220-$450/night). A favorite for its 1920s elegance and a historic landmark named after Revolutionary War hero Francis Marion.

The Bed & Breakfast: The Nicholas

If a more private, bed and breakfast is the experience you’re looking for, check out The Nicholas. Located in the moss-draped Harleston Village two blocks off Lower King Street, it’s a reimagined 1798 house, with 9 rooms and a private plunge pool. With rates ranging from $290-$499 per night, it offers a more intimate, local touch and includes an “Epicurean Grab+Go” breakfast.

Our 3-Day Charleston Girls’ Trip Itinerary

Before I dive into the best restaurants, bars and nightlife in Charleston, here’s exactly how we spent our long weekend, straight from the itinerary that kept us on track. And having the time of our lives.

Day 1 – Thursday — Arrival & Party Vibes

6:00 AM –We were coming from Central Florida, so we loaded up the mini-van and drove up super early in the morning. It’s about a 6 hour drive so we wanted to get there in time for a late lunch.

3:00 PM – We arrived at our house, chose our rooms and unpacked a bit before heading out to our first stop of the day, Bay Street Biergarten. We walked there from our place, which wasn’t long, however it we thought we took a wrong turn at one point. Once we got there, though, the food, service and atmosphere was great.

6:00 PM – From there, we kept things casual and took a ride-share to Edmund’s Oast brewery for craft beers and good vibes. We kept it going into the night at a recommended local bar that was walking distance from our house called the Recovery Room. Now that was an unexpected good time. I love when a good “see where the night takes you” works out.

Day 2 – Friday — Cheers & Chills

10:00 AM – First thing was first, Trucker Hat Roulette! If you’ve seen this on Instagram you know. Everyone wore all black, grabbed a mystery trucker hat, and spent the day in them. It sounds ridiculous, but it was hilarious. Ten out of ten, would recommend creating your own ridiculous group tradition.

12:00 PM – We took a stroll down to Brown Dog Deli for lunch and it was exactly what we were craving. Amazing sandwiches, all too good sounding to choose. I went with a French Onion Grilled Cheese and it was divine.

3:00 PM – Afterwards, we explored King Street, found a few rooftop bars and explored until we were ready for a break.

6:30 PM – Dinner reservations at Church and Union.

9:00 PM – Then, walking distance from the restaurant was the meeting place for our Haunted Ghost Tour.

Day 3 – Saturday — Galentine’s Day

11:00 AM – Saturday was Valentine’s Day, and we dressed like it. We all got dolled up in our reds, pinks and whites and headed out to Iron Rose for brunch.

1:00 PM – Then, we strolled in the gorgeous weather to see Rainbow Row and the Pineapple Fountain. What’s great about Charleston with such a large group, is everyone was able to walk off and do what they wanted when there wasn’t something planned. I kept the itinerary light, for those who wanted to explore more historical sites, head home for some downtime, or bar hop.

7:00 PM – We all had a big drive home the next day, so we spent some quality time in our adorable house—face masks on, Thai food ordered, and hilarious card games played. And somehow, Dirty Dancing ended up coming on and we all watched (while some of us performed dance routines for the group). It was the perfect ending to a perfect trip.

The Best Restaurants in Charleston for a Girls’ Trip

Three days in Charleston is definitely not enough time to enjoy all the foods it has to offer, but we did a pretty good job while we were there. Here are all the restaurants we visited and a few others that are highly rated from our list.

Church and Union

This was my big birthday dinner location, and it absolutely lived up to the occasion. It’s a church turned restaurant and the vibe was on point. The food was absolutely amazing, one of the best dishes I’ve ever had. Featuring Modern-American cuisine and crafted cocktails it’s definitely special occasion worthy. Make sure to book in advance (and request the main dining room)—this one fills up fast.

Iron Rose

Iron Rose was our go to for Brunch on Valentine’s Day. The ambiance was perfect for what we were looking for and the mimosas were flowing. They have a really pretty courtyard area as well that we took full advantage of for photos.

Edmund’s Oast Craft Brewery

One of our unexpected favorites from the trip. If you’re willing to take a very short uber to this brewery, it’s worth it. The atmosphere is great, the beers were delicious and there’s a great menu if you need to grab a bite. And for those who aren’t beer fans, they have a full bar.

Bay Street Biergarten

I took a bit of a risk adding this place to the agenda, as it’s off the beaten path, but I’m so glad I did. The vibe of this place was exactly what I was looking for as our first stop in Charleston after a long drive. Local feel, tons of outdoor seating, and craft beer. And the food—wow. We opted for a bunch of apps and they were incredible.

Brown Dog Deli

If you are a sandwich lover, like me, this is a must add to your itinerary. The menu had sandwiches like Apple Butter Jeans (a pressed panini with turkey, ham, bacon jam, apple butter, brie spread, and arugula) and Totes Ma G.O.A.T.S (Boar’s Head Cajun Turkey, hot honey whipped goat, fig preserves, caramelized onion aioli, fontina, roma tomatoes and arugula.) We had a very hard time deciding what to order, and yes multiple bites were shared across orders.

Basic Kitchen

Basic Kitchen is a great option for those seeking a more health-conscious menu. They focus on using seasonal, local produce to create food that’s nourishing and delicious. We didn’t make it there this trip, but next time I am there it will be a go to for lunch.

Millers All Day

Millers All Day was my second option for brunch with the girls. With a more casual atmosphere, it wasn’t the Vday vibe I was going for, but it has great reviews. They also don’t take reservations, so check the wait time and plan ahead with this one.

Charleston’s Rooftop Bars & Nightlife Scene

Ok the Charleston nightlife scene is exceptional. From sophisticated rooftops to dive bars, there’s something for everyone. Here are the all the places we went on our trip and they are all worth a visit.

The Ritual

Located in the heart of Downtown Charleston, off King and Calhoun St., the rooftop has a beautiful view of the bridge and Marion Square. On a sunny February afternoon, this spot makes for the perfect location to lounge on the rooftop with a delicious cocktail.

The Recovery Room

You know you’ve found a great dive bar when it doesn’t even have a website. On our first night, we were recommended this bar from a local after they learned where our house was located. Just a short 10 minute walk down the street, it quickly became one of our favorite spots. Pool tables, cheap drinks, a DJ playing all the hits, and late night trivia? I mean you can’t beat it. We could not have asked for a better first night to kick off the trip. (And we won second place in trivia!)

The Citrus Club

The Citrus Club is a seriously classy joint. Located on the 8th floor of The Dewberry, it’s the highest rooftop in Charleston. With gorgeous views of Marion Square and the Charleston Harbor, it earned a permanent spot in our hearts. Especially when we tried the Wölffer Estate Dry Rosé Cider. If you are not a cider person, this will convert you. Bright, dry, perfectly effervescent, and absolutely iconic for a Valentine’s weekend girls’ trip.

Burns Alley Tavern

Tucked directly behind the YETI store on King Street, this little dive was a hidden gem. And we discovered it by asking the sales clerk at YETI what his favorite bar was. It’s the perfect counterpoint to the rooftop bars and a reminder that the best moments on a girls’ trip are often the spontaneous ones. I also have to shout out the YETI store for making it on our favorite bars list. The shopping experience was on point, with live music and a free whiskey tasting while you shop.

Henry’s on the Market

Henry’s on the Market was recommended to us by some locals as a great place for live entertainment. It’s a 4 story venue with a different band on each one. Be prepared to pay the rich $20 cover to get in, but it’s a place you can definitely stay at all night. The top floor was a legit concert venue and the entertainment was worth it.

Activities & Sightseeing in Charleston

Between the eating and drinking, Charleston has plenty to keep a group of women entertained, charmed, and slightly spooked.

King Street Shopping

King Street is the main street and an absolutely essential part of a Charleston visit. It’s hard to miss and it’s filled with a good mix of national retailers and locally-owned boutiques. Window shopping is a blast, but there are also so many fun bars and restaurants to tuck into as well.

The Haunted Ghost Tour

Charleston is considered one of the most haunted cities in America, and the ghost tours take that reputation very seriously. It’s the perfect combination of informative history and wonderfully spooky storytelling. Highly recommend booking in advance, and the after dinner walk was perfectly timed.

Rainbow Row, The Battery & Pineapple Fountain

No Charleston trip is complete without the sightseeing classics. Rainbow Row—the iconic stretch of pastel-colored historic homes, The Battery offering gorgeous waterfront views and the Pineapple Fountain which makes for the best group photo of the whole trip.

Walking tip: Downtown Charleston is extremely walkable. If you’re staying near King Street, you can cover Rainbow Row, The Battery, Waterfront Park, and back to King Street all on foot in a few hours. Wear comfortable shoes, though, the cobblestones are gorgeous but unforgiving.

Carriage Tour

Even though we didn’t get to fit this in, a carriage tour is one of Charleston’s most iconic experiences. These horse-drawn rides take you through the historic district all while sharing stories about the city’s history and architecture. Tours typically last about an hour and no two rides are exactly the same. It’s definitely at the top of our “next time” list for a slower, more immersive way to see the city.

City Market

We didn’t make it here on this trip, but the City Market is one of Charleston’s most well-known spots. Stretching several blocks, it’s home to dozens of local vendors selling everything from handmade goods to art and classic Lowcountry souvenirs.

The Perfect Charleston Girls’ Trip for Valentine’s Weekend

Charleston has a way of making you feel like time slows down. The streets are beautiful, the food is extraordinary, the history is everywhere you look, and the people are genuinely warm. February, with its mild weather, quieter crowds, and Valentine’s energy, might actually be the best possible time to experience it.

Whether you’re celebrating a milestone birthday, planning a Galentine’s Day escape, or just overdue for a trip with your closest friends, Charleston will exceed every expectation. Start planning, book your house, make your reservations, and get yourself to King Street as soon as humanly possible.

I celebrated turning 40 in one of the most beautiful cities in America, surrounded by my favorite women in the world. That’s the kind of birthday that doesn’t need a bow on it—it’s already perfect.

For more girls trip adventures and some wanderlust inspiration for your next vacay, check out these travel guides:

Scottsdale’s Ultimate Foodie and Adventure Girls’ Getaway

Ultimate Girls Weekend Getaway In Austin — Guide to Planning Your Trip

Classy Girls Weekend in New Orleans

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Happy Friday! I cannot believe that it is almost the end of March. How is it already Q2 and basically almost summer? I’ve decided to change my Fab Five Friday schedule to monthly at the end of the month. And because Spring is in full swing I’m featuring five of my all time favorite spring/summer, outdoor, poolside favorites! So if you are ready to bask in the warmth of the summer sun, hit the beach or pool, you have to read on for these must have favorites.

1. Hawaiian Tropic Weightless Face Sunscreen

Every spring or summer I always need to reup on my favorite face sunscreen. It’s very light and gives you a beautiful glow. I’ve never had any kind of irritation and it will usually last me all summer. It’s a must have in my pool and beach bag.

2. Target Sandals

I am obsessed with these $12 sandals from target. They are waterproof, perfect for beach and pool days and are so comfortable. I never have to worry about them getting ruined or dirty because they are so cheap, too. Soccer fields? No problem. Beach sand? Falls right out! They are the best.

3. Best Hat for Pool or Beach

I have posted about this hat so many times, but I can’t rave about it enough. Its so durable even when getting wet in the pool. It’s foldable so it is easy to pack. And it looks great on everyone. They have multiple colors as well. Must check it out!

4. Beach Blanket

This beach blanket is perfect for long days on the sand. In fact I just used this last weekend on a trip to Amelia Island. It fit 4 adults and what is really neat about it, is that it’s weighted down by filling the corners up with sand. So easy and convenient.

5. Wolffer No.139 Dry Rose Hard Cider

We discovered this delicious rosé cider while on my birthday trip in Charleston and they had it at a brewery we visited in Amelia Island as well. It’s a great choice for anyone who doesn’t love beer and want something refreshing and delicious. It’s pretty high in alcohol so you don’t need too many, but it is now one of my favorite refreshing cocktails for a day outside.

I hope you enjoyed this month’s Fab Five Friday! Have a great weekend!

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